There are moments when analytical, logical thought seems irrational. Those moments seem most apparent in intimate relationships.
What we feel for the other person should be the overriding concern. Not who or what or how they are. That is simple and straightforward, but somehow it gets mixed up and feeling is not enough, or at least, not the only thing.
We talk, we listen, we analyze, we reflect. That is the problem. We reflect and try to recapture the feeling and in so doing, we think. Why?